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Also, I'd just like to request that you and society as a whole work super-hard to unpack yourselves of this notion. Oh and maybe nap before dates. Would it really make you feel better about yourself? If it doesn't work out, signs you're dating a it doesn't work out.
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Ultimately the biggest issue between us was that our wants are so different. It's never been any kind of issue. Society wasn't bad, as she seemed much older than her age and i didn't look as old as I am. The age difference is perfectly acceptable, and i know plenty of successful couples with that type of age gap.
It's all pretty standard man, you'll have the same relationship drama as any other relationship. Although women tend to live longer, funny they also age faster. One was a virgin and she really did rock. Many other women I heard from seem to agree.
She can't cook for toffee though. Expect to pick up the tab a lot. And I plan on staying hot forever.
Don't bring up the age difference on the first date. Any advice would be much appreciated. Just raise the bar on what she is use to.
We reaaaaally encountered his age when talking Saturday morning cartoons. Women are people, just like you. She, on the other hand, never seemed to get over the age gap. Stuff like that can make things a bit awkward. Become a Redditor and join one of thousands of communities.
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- My wife is five years older than me.
- Also distance features into the equation but for me the age thing is a much bigger deal.
- He's just a guy, and will do anything happily for the right woman.
- This isn't a big deal, but it does mean a lot of explaining about certain things.
As long as he's legal, date who you want. Is he actually capable of maintaining a healthy relationship, or is he looking for a parent? Don't go fishing subconsciously or not for reasons to not go for it. Like most things, free dating apps it's okay with some people and not okay with others.
The relationship wont be that much different than one with an older woman. Most of the time we found out each others ages after we started dating and it just wasn't an issue for either of us. If you guys are just dating and hanging out, that's fine, but if you're thinking of more, then think about these things before you get too emotionally entangled and have too many feelings involved. Dating older men is awesome and I think the feeling is mutual.
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Maybe they felt like he didn't actually care but was somehow tricking me. Never noticed this, quite the opposite. Why do you care what other people think about your prospective relationship, or what they might think about you on the basis of who you date? And I know what it looked like to her friends and family, beautiful blonde hooks up with successful world traveller.
33 year old man dating a 23 year woman
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33 year old man dating a 23 year woman
You're both of legal age so there's nothing stopping you. Your obviously trying to justify being together but your just hung up on age which seems to be the only obstacle as suggested by your post. What the hell is wrong mods these days? Does age become prominent as you are together, or does it become something more of a sub-thought as you hang out?
The key to the whole thing is what kind of relationship the guy already has with his friends and family. Or you could realize you're being ridiculous and ask this one out now. At the start a couple women he worked with may have felt like he was taking advantage of me. This must worry you for some reason, but it shouldn't.
She needed a more equal partnership so she could bring more to the table. The second marriage we were exactly the same age. If that's the case with you then believe in it and give him a chance. If there is love in the relationship then it shouldn't matter what either family thinks. Older women, because of their confidence and experience, also make better lovers.
Eight years isn't much and the gap does close over time. We made a great couple, and were together for years as well. If some year old dude referred to me as a cougar, I'd probably smack him right upside the head. What matters is what you and the woman think about this, not what we do. The older party being a woman doesn't somehow make it wrong, that's a sexist double standard and it's bullshit.
Her life stage is important beyond the actual number of her age. Literally, she was more into black metal than any guy I've ever met. This is the largest age gap I've ever experienced. Put another way, dating online liverpool do you really want the respect of men who think this way about women?
If you're ashamed of her or of yourself because of her age, do her the favor of breaking things off so that she can find someone who is proud to be with her. Let people deal, it's not a big problem unless you make it a big problem. If you're thoughtful and mature and your are compatible, great, have a good time. It's a fine age gap for anyone. Our friends were different ages too, so that was a bit of a hurdle.